Top 5 tips on how to do foreplay more exciting
1) Find out what makes your partner tick. When in doubt,
just ask your partner what they enjoy during sex. According to Barbara Bartlik,
M.D., a professor of psychiatry at Cornell University, "most [people]
appreciate men who want to make sure they're satisfied." They'll be more
likely to repay the favor if they see that you're trying to win them over. No
matter the type of sex you are having, communication is crucial. An erotic
environment that is both sexy and trusting is created by being open and honest about your turn-ons and inviting your partner to do the same. Vietnamese porn movies
2) Use sexting all day. Not all foreplay begins in the
bedroom. It might begin as soon as you awaken. Even before you enter the same
room, a simple text like "Can't wait to get naked with you tonight"
can excite your partner. Send each other some sexy photos if you and your
partner find that sending nudes makes you both hot. Then you can text them
about your intentions for their exposed body. Sexting starts the fires so early
that you'll be REARING to go when you're actually in bed.
3) Incorporate some temperature variation. According to
Sofiya Alexandra, co-host of the podcast Private Parts Unknown, using ice cubes
and candles that double as massage oil is a fun and simple way to turn up the
heat during foreplay. Alexandra instructs, "Hold an ice cube between your
teeth and draw it down your partner's body." Or, if you prefer heat, like
I do, you can involve candles. For a little BDSM fun, one of my college
boyfriends and I used to use simple soy candles to drip wax on one another.
However, if you've never tried wax play before, a massage candle is a safer way
to dip your toe in. For maximum pleasure, Alexandra advises, "Drip high at
first to cool the oil down before initial contact with skin, and take your time
slowly massaging it in." "You want the corpse of your partner to beep
like a swarm of murderous hornets."
4) Take your time taking off your clothes. A marathon, not a
sprint, is moreplay. (However, if you're in a hurry, these are the best sex
positions.) Instead of quickly disrobing, begin by removing their shirt. Before
you remove their pants, give it a few minutes, and so forth. Then you can
concentrate your kisses and licks on that newly exposed body part. Massage your
partner's legs after removing their pants. You can lick and delicately suck on
their nipples once the top has been removed. (Nipple play can be fun for both
sexes.)
5) Submerge one another. If you've ever tried to have sex
while in the shower or near water, you know how difficult it is to thrust with
your body submerged. For this reason, Courtney Kocak, co-host of Private Parts
Unknown, advises foreplay in the bathtub. We all have sexy fantasies that
involve steamy showers or candlelit bubble baths, claims Kocak. Before you
enter, "Enjoy stripping down with your partner; you could create a playful
atmosphere by taking turns being underdressed." Simply keep the water warm
so you can stay in and fully experience the intimacy of touch. (Men's Fitness,
2021)
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