Why Do People Enjoy Being Spank During Sex | Vietnamese sex movies

 

Why Do People Enjoy Being Spank During Sex? A funny thing is sex. It exists in this peculiar little area where you are permitted to say and do things that could result in physical harm and expulsion from almost all other places. Sex Vietnamese culture

There is a significant contrast between what is possible "in life" and what is possible "in bed," and this paradox seems to be magnified when kink is added to the equation. The practice of discipline is frequently eroticized and carried out in ways that society would not normally condone in the world of dominance and submission.

Ever tried spanking someone for passing you up in line at the supermarket? No thanks. But slapping someone during a cozy and consenting night in? That, however, is something entirely different. We turned to Dr. Dulcinea Pitagora for some clarification on sexual spanking. She is a certified psychotherapist and sex therapist known as the "Kink Doctor" who specializes in offering affirming, sex-positive therapy to people who express themselves sexually and gender non-conformingly.

 

Dr. Pitagora was formerly a professional dominatrix and has also been a part of the NYC kink community for more than ten years. She assisted in teaching us the finer points of discipline in the bedroom. What then is the definition of sexual spanking? The act of spanking sexually takes place during a role-play. In actuality, nobody is being punished for anything. It is a component of a scene that you have already agreed to. The aim is to enjoy each other.

You do it because both the person spanking the other person and the person receiving the spanking like it. What's the most effective way to identify the spanking fan? Although it's frequently assumed that men will play the dominant role, it's not always the case. Men occasionally prefer to be the ones who are spanked. Many kinky guys enjoy being the dominant one.

Really, it all depends on the person. What's the best way to get ready for a spanking session when you're ready to try it out? The most crucial aspect of preparation is communication, which is best done before you start. You shouldn't have that conversation when you're already energized. It should be done at a time that is neutral. Maybe during dinner or at some point during the day. Your experience, expectations, and desires should all be discussed.

Discuss your communication strategy within the scene as well. Just as you need to know how to say you want more, you also need to know how to say something is too much. Are you going to say something safe? Will you speak normally now? All of that must be planned out in advance. What makes spanking such a common sexual activity in your opinion? Considering that everyone is aware of it. We can discuss it easily.

Many of us in our culture were raised with the threat or reality of being spanked as children as punishment. When you're a child, there is a built-in power dynamic in that. You might go all Freudian on it. Additionally, the area around your ass is erogenous. Other erogenous areas that we want to touch are nearby. That makes wanting to spank seem like a pretty logical action.

          

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